How to disagree

[NickB]

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There is an interesting article HERE which is very applicable to discussions on internet fora such as this one.

If you can't be bothered reading the article here's a nice graphical summary represented as a pyramid with the most potent forms of argument at the top:



If we all try to stay nearer the top of the pyramid it can only be good for the quality of debate on here.

[Minimum]

Thanks for this Nick - it looks to be an excellent way to help keep us all on track. Perhaps we could start a new thread on discussing exactly what an "ass hat" is - I've never heard of one before and the mind boggles. Then again, is it just knickers?

[canUsmellthat]

Looks like how a typical topic starts and finishes on this forum...then again...anyone disagree???

[Minimum]

I suppose it's a matter of interpretation. Is calling someone a hat on a donkey really name-calling?

Am I now refuting the central point or responding to tone?

Apologies one and all - enough from me - I'll say no more other than I like the pyramid model and will endeavour to stick to the top segments.